Terms & Conditions

You must be 18 or older. Membership is by review — a chapter lead approves your name before you get in, and approval is at our discretion. One account per man. Don't share your login, and don't bring anybody in under your name.

Dues are $99 per month, one rate for every man, billed monthly through our payment processor. Cancel any month and access ends at the close of that billing period. Partial months are not refunded. If dues fail, the feed and rooms lock until they're current.

There is no warning ladder for these. Threatening, planning, inciting or glorifying violence toward any person or group ends your membership immediately, and the content is blocked before it posts. Bullying, harassment, contempt campaigns, slurs, doxxing, pile-ons and mockery of a man who asked for help end your membership the same way.

We remove the content, close the account, keep the record, and where a credible threat exists we contact the authorities. No appeal on a credible threat of harm.

Do not screenshot, record, repost or repeat another member's words outside The Den. Breaking confidence is grounds for removal.

What you write stays yours. You give us permission to display it inside The Den to approved members so the place works. We may remove content that breaks these terms or the code of conduct.

Posts, comments and room messages are screened automatically for threats and self-harm language, and flagged items go to a human queue. You agree to that screening as a condition of membership. Screening is not surveillance of your private mood log, which stays private.

The Den is peer support among men. It is not therapy, medical advice, crisis care or treatment, and no one here is acting as your clinician. Nothing in here replaces professional care. In an emergency call 911, or call or text 988.

We may suspend or remove an account for breaking these terms, the code of conduct, or for conduct that puts other members at risk. Dues stop at removal; we don't refund past months.

Applying to start a chapter does not grant you authority to represent The Den. Chapter leads are approved individually, must clear review, and serve at our discretion.

If we change these terms we'll say so in the feed before they take effect. Staying a member after that means you accept the change.